It would be so nice if someone would just tell me what to do. —everyone coming to a religious leader, fitness guru, or friend

But let’s be honest: that desire comes with conditions.

We want to be told what to do as long as the person…

1. is right about what’s right and good
2. can see the big picture
3. understands our background and needs
4. is wise and not corrupt
5. isn’t manipulating us
6. gives instructions we’re actually capable of following

That last one especially — it trips us up.

We long for a list. Something simple, repeatable. A way to feel safe. We want rules we can order our lives around and quietly judge others by (while, of course, making exceptions for ourselves). But eventually, the cracks show. A leader disappoints us. We can’t keep the standard. We spiral.

Then we go searching again — for a new set of rules, a new path to certainty.

But the narrow way of the Gospel asks something different of us. It takes our craving for clarity and offers presence instead.

Now if I have indeed found favor with you, please teach me your ways, and I will know you, so that I may find favor with you… — Moses (Exodus 33:13)

And God answers, not with instructions, but with companionship:

“My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” —Exodus 33:13 (CSB)

You can come to the Bible and find a list of rules — the law. And maybe you trust God enough to tick off boxes 1–5 above. But what about number 6?

Will I ever be capable of doing all He asks?

No.